As much a I love the idea of a HB, I know my DH would never agree to it; and after all, it's his birth too. But, since reading more and more, I'll definately try for a natural delivery (no drugs) this time, possibly in water in the birthing suite. That way, if something does go wrong, DH will be happy knowing that doctors are close by. I would have never considered that if it wasn't for the wonderfull BB members and all their knowledge and birthing stories.