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  1. #1
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    Labour shorter with each baby?

    I know theres been threads on this before but..

    Did your labours get shorter each time with each baby??

    Everyone keeps telling me that the gods are going to grant me an even shorter labour than I had with DD2 (97mins). Although I love the idea of the 3rd labour been shorter, Im starting to think its setting me up for failure.

    So DD1 was 12hrs, DD2 was 97mins.

    TIA

  2. #2

    Jul 2009
    Out North, Vic
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    DD1 9hrs then DD2 5hrs.
    Both natural spontaneous labors - FWIW.

    Sent from my iPhone, more than likely while I should be doing something else!

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    Oct 2009
    Bonbeach, Melbourne
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    I'd be interested to hear about this too...DD's labour was 6 hours and I've been wondering the same thing.

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    Feb 2006
    Newcastle, NSW
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    All of mine have got slightly quicker.
    DS1 - 7.5hrs
    DD1 - 6hrs
    DS2 - 5.5hrs
    DD2 - 4hrs
    DD3 - 2hrs

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    Mine were
    6hrs active
    2hrs 10min
    84 mins

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    Wow, thanks ladies!

    Maybe its not just an old wives tale!

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    Mar 2011
    Sydney, Australia
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    LOL can I have the 84 min one the first time around ?


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    DS1 induced, from 1st contraction took about 16hours
    DS2 induced, from 1st contraction took about 4 hours
    DD some false starts inc the night before which was 6 hours of irr contractions, took 2.5 hours from 1st cont that day (and show)

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    May 2005
    Canberra
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    1st - 4hrs
    2nd - 4hrs
    3rd - 1.5hrs
    4th - 2.5hrs, but with a day of pre-labour lead up to it.

    I would add a note that the woman in the delivery suite next to me really did not deal with her labour well at all - because she had a quick labour qith her first, she was expecting the same for her second, and so was totally unprepared for the reality of a 12hr labour that she ended up having. If not for her expectations not being met, I think she would have coped a lot better, and not been so distraught if she hadn't had the expectation that things would be the same as last time.

    My advice, try and build expectation for the oppersite of what you want, because then if things don't go the way you expect you will be pleasantly surprised.

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    Dec 2007
    Geelong
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    12hrs,
    6hrs,
    3hrs,
    2hrs.

    Regards,
    Dianne

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    My second labour was 1/4 of the length of my first labour.

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    Nov 2007
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    Mine were
    12hrs.
    4hrs.

  13. #13

    May 2008
    Melbourne, Vic
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    #1: 40hrs
    #2: 6hrs
    #3: TBC... But going on past form I can expect maybe... 2hrs That'd be nice.

    No wait, I did my maths wrong... more like 40mins.

  14. #14
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    Dec 2008
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    Mine all pretty much halved.

    1. 5 hrs
    2. 2 hrs
    3. 56mins

  15. #15
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    Nov 2009
    Vic
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    How inspirational

    I had a 4.5 hr for my first to heres hoping for 1hr this time....if it ever happens????

  16. #16
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    Mar 2007
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    DD1 - 9.5hrs spontaneous labour 41wks
    DD2 - 14.5hrs spontaneous labour 40+6 wks

    So my 2nd was longer BUT she was 10lb 6oz (that's 4.7kg!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!) she needed longer to come out

    I started a thread on this a few months ago, it got pretty big!

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    Shanti- Yeah that might be the thread I remember!

    OP- Im really not sure about the idea of 40mins, would be nice to get it over with but it would have to be intense!

    Misty- That womans experience is what made me ask! Everyone keeps telling me that I will be fast again, if not faster. The midwife who I wanted, kept on saying to us she would take us on, but highly doubted that she would make it in time!! She kept mentioning to DH that she would talk him through it all on the phone!! mg:

    Delphmoon- I think you may miss this labour, it could be a bllink and you miss it event

  18. #18
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    Nov 2009
    Vic
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    Oh, I do hope so...LOL

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