more advice/quiestion for friend

[~clover~]

I feel the same way Trill. Is this thread public? I might link it to her.

[bonita]

i dunno much about givin birth and that kinda stuff but wen i went to the gynocoligist they said i do have a choice in the matter and they said that there is a very high risk that i could tear again and could lead to me havin a hysterectomy and not havin anymore kids.. so when he told me that i said well ill have a ceasar cos i wanna have more kids in the future.. i went for my antenantal check up a few weeks back and i told them what dubbo hospital said after i had my first 18 months ago and the midwives said that they were lying and i could have a natural birth but they made me an appointment with the gyno jus incase they were wrong.. but i will go and make another appointment with another doctor just to make sure

[~clover~]

Hey baby girl.
You just remember its your choice ok. I know you were worried about the tearing, but like I said to you before, I don't want you regretting it later.
It would be good to ask someone else, or even just ask the gyn you spoke to the other day to explain it to you in more detail.
Love ya xx

[bonita]

hey

yea i will ill see if i can speak to the gynocoligist again

[Honeybee]

What? Never heard of this. I'm no expert, but I had and epi and 3rd degree tear with DS, I am pg again and at my first Ob appt he said 'so I assume you're planning another VB?' and didn't raise any kind of questions at all, and Vaginal Delivery is circled on my card.

[~clover~]

Well guys, Bonita gave birth to a beautiful little boy, yet to be named, via c-section this morning