No vomiting here. And only a graze. I had one stitch - but it was 'cosmetic' lol. there was a little flap of skin (or something) that he tidied up, and he said it's a common thing if you used tampons when you were still a virgin ??? hehehe. No idea how true that is!

Maybe she's getting people freaked out and expecting the worst so that they think they've done really well when none of it happens! Stupid.

You'll be fine! Go with your body. I understand that if you're pushing without the urge to push, that can cause tearing, so just go with the flow