There's nothing wrong with wanting your birth to go a certain way and really only you can decide how you want this to be. The main thing is that you and your carers need to be in agreement so that you are both working toward the same thing.

If there is one thing that will become increasingly obvious to you as time goes by it is that no matter what choice you make, someone will have something to say about it. It seems to be par for the course when we're talking about babies!

Good luck and let us know how it goes.