i have had 2 bubs, and both times things would start each night, and i would think 'is this it?', and then they would stop again and start the next night. Went on for at least a week, which didn't really help with resting for the real thing!

With #2, on the night he was born, things started and i started to wonder again if this was the real deal, but it wasn't til my DD was in bed and asleep that things really kicked off. My mind was worried about her, and i just needed to be able to focus on me for things to progress.

I also had a lovely massage the afternoon before he was born, and we had been to our fave restaurant that week, and i felt ready.

How far pregnant are you?