Ive tried to involve them all in the nursery, picking of the pram, car seats, ultrasounds etc DD1 is 9 (she will 10 when bub is here) and she is not interested in helping with anything and refuses to come to any of the ultrasounds so im a little worried there.

DD2 is 7 and is over the moon and loves the ultrasounds and helping in the planning!

Ds is 3 and i try and talk to him as much as possible about it, we talk about the baby in my tummy, he came to the 12wk ultrasound and loved seeing the baby on the "TV", its difficult for him to comprehend though!