Thanks you ladies for your very quick responses! I REALLY appreciate them.

I think you all have definitely highlighted for me the fact that I need to do take more care in this situation - I really had no understanding to begin with. I think being set in my mind as to doing things my way, and always questioning doctors put my ego in front instead of the health of my baby.

If it does happen again for real, I know that I will be approaching it with a different mindset, and feeling out the situation as it comes.

I am very sorry for the mums that have suffered loss, thank you for your honesty.