Oh I should add there is nothing wrong with feeling "ripped off" if you don't get the birth you planned either. I feel so ripped off by my first experience but then my focus shifted to doing what was necessary if that makes sense.

PLease have a chat with your care givers and do not be afraid to ask questions and demand answers.They may not tell you things when they are in the thick of trying to slow down or stop labour but they sure as hell should discuss what they were doing and why afterwards.

ALso ensure you discuss your birthing options at each point so if you happen to run into a spot of bother before 37 weeks then once you reach term etc.

Its one thing to come in here andask and get informed but your hospital may just have some policies in place for these types of births.

Here's to no more preterm issues for you though *raises glass of water*

Nae x