I know this is going to be a dumb question...

but, I was wondering if is it bad for baby if you push too early? Does it mean youre more likely to tear? Does it mean you'll be pushing for longer?

Just asking because sometimes people mention they felt like the ob/midwife was trying to rush them into delivering. I think I think too much and now I am wondering if I pushed too early and that is why I had such a long pushing stage of labour.

So, is it bad if you start pushing before youre really ready?