thanks for your replies
kelly i think it is after both of my births i felt like a train wreck with josh i was in bed due to an epiduial and flynn i was out of bed most of the birth gave birth on bed but bottom of bed was down so i was like sitting giving birth i guess my ob only is thinking what is best for me he also has said c/section you can also pph as well or worse i was just feeling like c/section was the way to go but i guess he is the doctor and knows best also after i saw my ob on tuesday just gone i had to go and get my anti-d shot the midwife at the hospital and i talked about it and she said the drs in the private hospital are doing to many c/section so some drs have changed there minds about some cases but i guess if the health of me or baby are at risk the ob said he will do what is right for me and bubs thanks