reasons for a c-section?

[Calluna]

I'm trying to help my partner understand all the choices that we need to make regarding the birth of our baby.
We really want a natural birth but realise it may be neccesary to have a c/s. We would like to know specific reasons we may be given as to why that may not be possible.

Why might we have to have a c-section?

[feeb]

Fetal Distress
Bleeding
Placenta previa (placenta over cervix)
Placenta abruptia (placenta coming away from uterus)
Breech (very few drs will do a vaginal breech)
Twins
Failure to progress
Deep transverse arest (baby stuck)
Prolonged labour
CPD (small pelvic outlet)

These are main reasons

Your EDD is 1 day diff to when my DS was due! but was induced early

[Nadine216]

add premature labour;
and if you are really sick

no expert, just experiance

[Alipralli]

My DDs head was just in the wrong position, and wouldn't come down. After my emergency c-section, the doc reckoned we made the right decision (she had had a bit of distress, but we could have tried to push for longer, but they said that we would probably still be in the same position in 2 hours time, and still heading for a caesarian), coz apparently she really was stuck in there, and wasn't going to come out on her own.

[ACJ]

DS wasborn via c-section and it was because he wasn't going into labour. I am induced due to GD and we waited 6 hrs going through contractions and being on monitors and everything and he just wouldn't go into labour and chose to have a emergency c/s so that he wouldn't become distressed.

[Lulu]

Careful of the "big baby" excuse handed by drs, it's often a total load of crud.

[LucaJack'sMum]

I had high blood pressure and pre-eclampsia...

[BhoysGirl]

I had 30-40 sec contractions every 4-5 minutes for roughly 12 hours, but didn't dilate at all, not even to 3cms (apparently, I wasn't checking for myself ) . When they broke my waters there was meconium, so the decision was made to insert a drip to induce, but that included an epidural first. When they put the epi in, DS went into foetal distress, his heartrate just dropped with each contraction. They waited through about 4 contractions to see if his heartrate would stabilise, but it didn't, which worst 15 minutes of the whole experience cos it was so awful hearing the heartrate drop on the machine. So I was whisked in for an e- c/s.

I haven't any scientific knowledge to base this next bit on, but I blame my "failure" to dilate on the fact that they gave me pethidine to help me sleep, because it meant that for a few hours I gave up on the whole active birth concept (too spaced out on drugs, just wanted to sleep), and then I blame the epidural for his foetal distress. This could be completely wrong, it's just how I've rationalised it for myself to make me feel a bit better about it all.

In retrospect though, I wish I'd known a bit more about the whole c/s thing, I was so convinced that I'd manage a natural birth that I glossed over anything that mentioned c/s, so I was a little unprepared for some parts. So I think it's a wise idea to at least consider the possibility.

Having said all of that, I've tried not to dwell on it too much, because at the end of the day I got a healthy baby & a healthy me, which I was grateful for, as was my DF. And for me, the C/S wasn't a difficult thing to recover from, and it got me out of quite a lot of housework for a good 6 weeks

[Calluna]

Thanks heaps, I can always count on you lovely ladies to give me a good, comprehensive answer.
My DP doesn't have much faith in the doctors to do the right thing by us, so he wants to know all the stuff they might say and what is true and whats not. I just dont know how to answer him. I reckon I'd have to be a doctor myself to be able to give him the answer he wants. lol
Anything else they might say to or do to hurry us along? In our birth plan we mentioned we dont want any un-necessary augmentation or drugs.
What are the chances of them reading our birth plan then and completely disregarding some or all of it? If they do what can we do about it?


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ARGH so many questions Doesn't matter how much research I do or how many questions I ask there always seems to be a million more.

[Calluna]

And for me, the C/S wasn't a difficult thing to recover from, and it got me out of quite a lot of housework for a good 6 weeks

No housework hey??? That's it!! Book me in!! jk

[Lulu]

IMHO, I think birth plans are ultimately for you, not the middies or Drs, they may read it and listen but the MAY have their own agenda. Whilst it would be nice to rock up and say " I'll have an intervention free birth with a side of gas please", things can chance once you are there and if a medical professional speaks sternly to you (for eg.) about needing a cs, epidural or "failure to progress" (watch out for that too!) it can be very, very off putting.

Its GREAT your DH is so determined to be informed - it really is. There may come a point where you don't want to communicate with anyone, so DH can do that for you. Get him on here too if you like and keep informing yourselves of the mechanics of birth etc. Get a copy of The Business of Being Born, go to private birth education classes run by those with similar thoughts about birth as you and decide between yourselves what you will do in the event of x, y and z.

and best of all - GET A DOULA!!! They can help interpret things for you and DH and support you BOTH to get the outcome you desire.

I'd never have another bubba without one!

xoxoxo

[Calluna]

I know the birht plan is more preferences, I'm trying to prepare myself and DP for the chance that things may not go the way we want. Hence the original question. We wanted to know when we should speak up about what the doc says, whats true and whats just them trying to hurry things along so they can go home for dinner.
I would love to do all of that stuff but we are so broke right now. Not a cent to spare as it is. I dont really know where to start with any of it either.

It is great that DP wants to know everything about everything but he wants me to do all the research for him and tell him because he doesnt like reading. I'm useless at explaining things as it is, let alone with this stupid preggo brain. lol So I've compromised (I am at home all day as it is, while he's studying) I'll look up the info and he has to read it. but he wont read it on the comp, so I have to print it. Then I print it and hes too tired from tafe to read it and retain the info. grr. I feel like I have to do everything when its him that wants all the answers!

*ahem* /end vent

Well I want answers too but I browse around online most of the day and get them. I cant print EVERY page I read. There'd be no paper left for anyone else in QLD. lol

What about a trainee doula, they do it for free dont they, because they're studying? Is it too late for me to get one? Where do I even start with that? Is that a good option for me being a first timer or would I need someone more experienced?
How do I convince DP that a doula is a good idea?

[Inertia]

" I'll have an intervention free birth with a side of gas please"

Perfect, I think I will be using that!

--- High BP is another one thats in the 50/50 category. My mum had High BP all 7 times - and had trouble free SVB all 7 times.

And yeah - Failure to progress can a lot of the time just mean "failed to dilate before my shift was due to end" - I *swear* they hate handing people over to the next shift and would prefer to send them to theatre instead. Makes no sense. I have gone through many shift changes - and could always tell when it was about to change because all the intervention options start being spouted.

[Junglemum]

High BP is another one thats in the 50/50 category. My mum had High BP all 7 times - and had trouble free SVB all 7 times.

High BP can be very serious. I agree there is slightly elevated which is often called high, and then there is high, HIGH. But not something to be taken lightly if it is true high BP. (As well as it being an indicator that other things may be going wrong.)