Trish... I had an awful time with these points. One being just the fact that choices were taken away and that one sided alternatives were given. As you probably remember all the pressure I was under when trying for the VBAC. I was told that I was putting my babies life at risk by going over 41+4. I had to firmly stand ground & when I got outside with shaking knees I would phone Kelly for help. DH & I cried alot in that last week with thoughts of all the "what if they're right?".

Give her books to read.... Print her out a few birth stories & give her a big hug from me.