I would scrub her off the list definitely. The last thing you want or need is having a face you have never seen before and only spoken to once, turning up at a time when you are at your most vulnerable, about to embark on a sacred journey. Surround yourself with love, not unfamiliarity, which is what she is really, this is an experience you cant go back and change so dont allow anything that you dont feel 100% comfortable with, in.

Sending you awesome birthing vibes