who did u have as ur support people/person?

did u just have ur partner or other people as well?

i have alwasy thought of having dh and my mum but after having a talk the other night we want it jsut dh and i. my mother assumes she is coming and she is the sort of person that if u tell no she will have a big sook and make me feel really bad till i give in.
So i am thinkin that i will just not say anythign and then when i am in labor just tellin her then because then she wont have time to think of stuff to say to me.
Does this sound mean?
i have been through so many ways i coudl say it to her but no matter wat i say she will take it the wrong way. or do u think i should drop hints all the time about just me and dp and special bonding time and stuff like that.