I'm not sure how old your DD is, but I just thought I would let you know that I was there, at the age of 7, when my sister was born and it was the single most important and empowering moment of my life My mum and dad talked to me about what would happen in advance, we watched some videos of babies being born all together and we bought a present for me to give to the baby.

I'm sure you'll make the right decision - all the best with the birth of your beautiful baby