You have EVERY right to turn it down. It's YOUR body!!!

I cancelled my clinic check up yesterday and didnt go because I knew they'd give me an internal and I don't want one.

Our babies will come when they are ready and no ones when "ready" is except our bodies.

I can't feel even a bit of pressure on my cervix or back and have no idea how "engaged" baby is...I really dont want any unnecessary poking or prodding so am happy to tell Dr where to stick it!