I was told not to push when i was giving birth to Hannah. The midwife told me to wait for my doctor. But that urge to push was so great, i really didn't have too much control over it. I was saying to the midwife "Do we really need him, (my dr) can't you just help me??!!!! Dr ended up walking in at the moment Hannah entered the world. The midwife mentioned Anterior lip - but i had no idea what she was talking about - i still don't lol. She mentioned the word 'tear' at one stage and i tried my hardest to breathe through it. (my dh was shoving the gas mouthpiece in my mouth to try to stop my from pushing - i would have liked to have shoved it somewhere else !!!!!)