I don't think I would be able to stop if someone told me not to push. Both times my body has taken over and I was pushing before I really had a choice. It just kicked in.

With Mia being my third bubs I never even got checked during my labour. When the scalp clip went on at 7pm, at 8.45pm I felt pressure so the midwife said give a little push. I did exactly that and next thing saw a bub in her hand. My DH said stop pushing....but I quickly said to him "I can't and I am not!" She was coming on her own.

God help the person who told me not to lol. And why wait for a dr....midwives are better at it anyhow!