: Homebirthers or homebirthers to be: Would You Go Underground?

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  • Absolutely - I WILL find a way to birth at home

    28 35.44%
  • I will consider all my options and try to birth at home

    33 41.77%
  • If the new laws are passed, it will stop me from birthing at home

    18 22.78%

thread: Those who consider homebirth: Would you go underground?

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  1. #1
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    Feb 2003
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    Those who consider homebirth: Would you go underground?

    I wanted to put this poll up to those who have had a homebirth or want a homebirth, if the proposed laws are passed and homebirth is illegal, would you still try to find a way to birth at home, even if t's illegal?

    Also:

    If you are from Australia and would go underground to birth should homebirth become illegal, could you please email me at my first name, @bellybelly.com.au with your comments and thoughts on this - it will remain anonymous if you wish or just first name (make sure you let me know). I want to try and get a media release going - we need to attack this on every level, and we need to let them know that we will do everything to find a way to birth at home, to have our choice honoured. Being one of the biggest independent family sites in Australia as well as being considered "mainstream" I think this could send a powerful message.
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  2. #2
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    Jun 2009
    1

    Unhappy

    I have birthed all of my four beautiful children at home, and am devastated with the decision made by the government this past week. The ignorance and fear surrounding homebirth defies belief!

  3. #3
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    Jul 2007
    Melbourne
    3,660

    I voted for consider...

    My stance on the new law is so much more about choice than homebirth.

    As much as I want one - my last hospital birth was not traumatic, it was just the kind of birth where I may as well have been at home... and I wanted to for further births so it was about my family. I didn't need to take up room in a hospital and I think it's horrendous that a father can't stay with his newborn child as well.

    Anyway, aside that - I would consider because I don't know if I would have the determination to go underground. Maybe if I had even minimal birth trauma it would more highly influence me.

    I am impressed by any woman's dedication to take homebirth underground if that is what they so deeply desire. Good on you.

  4. #4
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    Jun 2008
    Tassie
    2,567

    I have thought a lot about birthing my next baby at home, my first 3 were in hospital and 2 were ones I would rather forget.
    If it is made illegal I would have no choice but to birth in hopspital. I wouldn't and couldn't birth at home without a midwife and risk my childs life. Where to birth is a choice we SHOULD have...

  5. #5
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    Jan 2008
    Brisbane
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    I wrote i would consider....why well its very hard. I have to take into consideration my DH feelings on freebirth.... As our last homebirth turned into an ooops freebirth which did scare him with the responsibility of it all....

    My first 2 hospital births were perfect hospital births! But IT SCARES the living daylights having the thought to have to go back to one. We have moved and the intervention rate is SO high at our local hospital! like 70% c/s, ahhhhhhh

    I would 100% birth at home if it was illegal IF there was a midwife willing to be there! But that wasnt an option on the poll.

  6. #6
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    May 2007
    Brisbane
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    For me, I chose consider... And there'd be a heck of a lot to consider... I wouldn't freebirth, i would have to have someone qualified there, so I guess it would come down to that... but then I would also feel a huge sense of responsibility to the midwife... if we had to transfer to a hospital, the midwife would be outed, and that would play on my mind and cause so much guilt I think... I dunno...

    I chose consider, because I would, but ultimately i think I'd end up in a hospital, because so many maybes, mostly at the midwife getting in trouble.

    If I couldn't have a homebirth I'd go to hospital with a BAZILLION doulas around me bearing arms against the hospital staff LOL!

  7. #7
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    Sep 2008
    South West Sydney, NSW
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    My stance on the new law is so much more about choice than homebirth.
    I am the same - my stance on the new laws is more about people having the option and the choice rather than the actual homebirth (if that makes sense at all)

    I am not sure that I would homebirth but I want to have the choice to do that if I decide to at the time.

  8. #8
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    Oct 2007
    Middle Victoria
    8,924

    As i understand it, the laws won't make it illegal to birth at home, they will just make it illegal to have the support of a midwife to birth at home.

    If you want to birth at home (without the support of a midwife) you don't need to go underground, you just don't go to hospital and have your baby at home.

    If you want to birth at home with the support of a midwife, you need to find a midwife who is prepared to go 'underground', ie to assist you without legal backing.

  9. #9
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    May 2007
    Brisbane
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    If you want to birth at home with the support of a midwife, you need to find a midwife who is prepared to go 'underground', ie to assist you without legal backing
    I think thats the point of the question - going 'underground' by finding a midwife who'll support you.
    I'm not sure there are too many woman willing to freebirth!

  10. #10
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    Jan 2009
    pakenham, victoria
    3,660

    i voted consider it.
    would have homebirthed this time, but the cost is what held us back, which im now kicking myself about because now i may never get the opportunity.
    my hospital birth with DD was a very very relaxed one compaired to some of the stories ive heard on bb. there was no intervention and i was told to follow my bodies lead, no directed pushing, which i believe helped my walk away without even a paper cut.
    i know that this most likely has alot to do with the beautiful midwife i got on the night and if it had of been another it could be a completely different story.
    rambling sorry, but just wanted to let u know that even tho i love the idea of homebirthing, sometimes hospital births arent that bad

  11. #11
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    Jul 2007
    Adelaide, South Australia
    764

    I want to have my next baby at home. I wanted my DD to be born at home, but health issues made this impossible.

    If we take away the right and the legality to birth at home, more women will have unassisted births, which in turn may increase the mortality and complication rate, therefore, making all the bigwigs who want to abolish it happy.

    We NEED to stop this insane pressure to make it illegal NOW!

  12. #12
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    Jun 2006
    Where the sun shines brightly!
    906

    If the proposed laws are passed (horrendous thought) I think we will see a lot of 'free-birthing' - which I do not think is really a desirable outcome. The Government are really being so dogmatic and arrogant in assuming that taking women's free choice away will have a positive result.
    I am determined to have a midwife-led homebirth for my third child, provided all goes smooth with my second labour, so I would be sorely disappointed if this option was not available to me in the near future. I guess I would be forced into choosing my second most favourable option - birthing in a midwife-led birthing centre.