Tara, a laparotomy is not like a c/section. They both give you an abdominal scar, but the c/sec is uterine surgery. What they are worried about with a VBAC is uterine rupture, related to the uterine scar. they are not worried about the scar on your tummy. I think you are going to have to get your records and take them in.
I think you are talking about the JHH. I don't know what to say to reassure you, but I wish I could. I was a high risk patient there too. You will see an OB but the midwives will still do your basic AN care. The doctors don't want to spend time measuring your tummy! Don't regret telling the truth about your history. It's always the best thing. HUGS.