Thanks guys your responses are invaluable. My worry at the moment is that if i go into labour on a weekday day mike will have to travel by train for at least 1.5 hours. I went into labour on a saturday evening with hendy so was hoping that it might be similar, or alternatively maybe ill get a feeling like rach did and tell DH to get home asap!
Kate your labours were practically identical time wise! Id love to be that organised. LOL