we had a homebirth so DD was with us for most of it. but when she got a bit bored and stir-crazy she went with the neighbours for a playdate. do you have neighbours that could watch your DD?

and yeah, if she goes to CC, a few staff might do babysitting...ours do!

and if she does end up being with you guys, i can say that it can be wonderful! my DDs face was alight with happiness when she saw her lil' sister. and she was a great help in rubbing my back during contractions lol.