I wish I had known how wonderful it was to have a child - maybe that way I wouldn't have looked at the midwife like she was mad when she offered me to watch Flynn crowing in the mirror LOL! Seriously, I think I lost sight of what I was doing at one stage I was so tired and had been pushing for so long (Flynn was posterior and took about 2 hours of pushing to get out). This time I will KNOW what is at the end, and will use that as a focus, IYKWIM?