I'm so glad to read that people have straight out said no to people who wanted to be present but were unwanted. I'm starting to stress a bit because my partners mum is very, well, not intrusive, but, well, I think you know what I mean, and from the start I've said that I didn't want her there and it seemed she understood but I'm afraid that when it comes to the time suddenly that understanding is going to go out the window and she'll be there. 8-[

My partner and my Mum are coming, provided they don't both pass out since partner has only seen one pregnancy video and I am an only child born by ceasar. I'm happy with those two and hopefully I wont have to get mean with partner's mum.