I was menat to be attending my sister for both of her births - the first was elctive c/s due to breh then the second emergency c/s - co never got to be there - i kinda wanted to but not... And now she is a childbirth educator - teaches ante natal classes and has pretty much assumed she will be there - but i am not sure that i want her to be there - i may chnage my mind if and when i am actually pg - but yeah...Its bad enough that mil and mother and step mum and granny all wanted to come to scans- i couldn't believe they would come out and ask like that - its sucha personal thing if i wanted them there i would ask... anyway is a moot point here for a while...Hope that things go well for you...