Hey CelticMoon

you can request intermittent monitoring...some health care providers may get their knickers in a knot, but remember your body, your baby, your labor...as long as you are staying safe then there is no reason intermittent monitoring cant be used

most hospitals have protocols for continuous monitoring...external: if you are induced, have an epidural, meconium liqor, any history of problems in the pregnancy or if at any stage the baby shows stress...of course all of this is still monitored well with a hand held doppler...internal: is for concerns about baby's well being and if they cant get a good read on the external monitor

there is another thread about walking epidural...somewhere

most labor wards have the equipment you mention

I would recommend that you write on your birth plan that you do not want to be coached with pushing, and to wait for uncontrollable urge...some well meaning health care providers just cant help themselves and instruct pushing before the urge is there

the use of instruments for delivery is really up to the person assisting with the birth your baby if the need arises...some circumstances call for the forceps over the vacuum...you just need to trust your doctor is making the best decision for you and your baby at the time

is the hospital you are birthing in baby friendly?...if so they are not 'allowed' to give your baby AF, bottle or dummy (some hospitals require the mother to sign a permission slip for AF to be given)....however if you are in any doubt make it know that you dont want this to occur

hope this helps

xx yogababy