Your poor DH. I can imagine that while it's really hard to go through the pain and agony of that kind of delivery, it's also incredibly difficult to sit beside someone you love who's going through it, along with the fear that something is terribly wrong. I don't think I'd like to be on that side of things at all either! Is there someone he can talk this out with?
Glad to hear that your little man is doing well! How are you feeling physically? Getting some strength back after that blood loss, or not yet?