Hi Shellbell! Thank you so much for sharing your birth story. and what a story! it sounds like you were treated rather unfairly by the hospital. birth can be a really isolating experience, and from what you have said, this was not helped by the lack of care from the staff.
Dont beat up on yourself! After that kind of time in labour, there is very little reserve left for dealing with the constant contractions. both of you did awesomely!

and Luke looks like the most gorgeous bub!

Congratulations!