hi there
Firstly congrats!!!! on your beautiful baby!!!.
I have also had 2 births that definatly didnt go to plan, my first was induction early, didnt dialate just like you and had to have emergency c/section. The second i was adamant that i wanted to do it naturally, i went into labour the night before my c/section was booked ( i was 2 days over) and only got to 3cm dialated and decreasing after hours of labouring. so had another emergency c/sec. Its a hard thing to deal with as you hear all the other people saying it was so easy and everything went right. But do look on the bright side you do have a precious little man and that is the main thing here.
So good luck with the future and enjoy this precious bundle you have