Wow I just read your story with tears in my eyes. You did SO well. Your partner, what a great support he was for you. How cute is your grandma lol, she must have felt so proud to be in on the birth with you. The pain is incredible, but my god it is well worth it in the end and I'm sure you feel the same way when I say I could do it a million times over, knowing the special bundle you get at the end.