This was a very quick labor, no show ,waters didnt break,nothing, i was swimming on a sunday with DH at my parents and we decided to go home for dinner, it was 6.30pm we got home i hoped in the shower and after id gotten out i was laying on the bed watching tv when i got a pain that was in the kidney area,it wasnt going away just there and constant, so i rang the hospital and they told me that it was probably nothing but as id lived so close to come in, so I did, the pain was getting stronger by this time but as i was only 35wks and 5 days i thought that it was just more pains, id had throughtout the whole pregnancy and been hospitalised several times so when we get there im put on a baby monitor and sure enough im told im in labor and going to have the baby 2nite. so i get pethedine and gas and 4 hrs later she was born,weighing 6lbs 13.5oz.But i was so anxious and hadnt had my antidepressants that i was argh horrible i refussed to push and kicked the doctor opps LOL. She was put onto my boob straight away but her sucking reflex hadnt come in so she only had a few sucks and went to sleep she spent the whole time in special care and i didnt have her in my room at all,she had to be gavarged(tube feed) because she kept falling asleep b/c of being premmie, but the worst thing was she had to stay in an extra two weeks after i went home and i had to go in every 4 hrs and feed her, i broke my heart every time i had to leave her, but she came hm eventually and now i want to sell her on ebay any takers!!!!! LOL ta for listening/reading Nadiaxx ps i love her to death, she's the light of my life.