Birth story for sebastian --- failed vbac

[Tanya]

Congrats Min. You really did give it your best shot!
There is a defrief section if you feel you need to get anything off your mind about Sebatian's birth.

You are amazing
xx

[fi1980]

Congratulations on the arrival of little Sebastian

Like everyone else has said you did an amazing job. There is nothing else you could of done to change the way things turned out. 3 days of labour! OMG you are a superstar. I had 12 hours of posterior labour and it was horrific (ended in c/s too)

I kow it is not what you hoped for but you did so well, you should be really proud of yourself. Well done

[Lolli]

Nothing failed about uit hun- I'm in awe! What an amazing job you did!!

[Danielle_NZ]

Thank you for sharing your story, I hope you've come to terms with his choice of arrival. Not a fail at all :-)

[~Minny~]

Thanks ladies

Its good to be able to go back and read through this. Makes me more determined for next time round

[ladybird11]

Thanks for sharing Minny - i'm hoping for a VBA2C (any day now lol).


FWIW you didn't fail at all hun!

[Tegam]

Thanks for sharing! You said failed VBAC? Do you still feel that way? Are you happy you tired??
Congratulations of the birth, i think you did an amazing job!

[~Minny~]

Thanks for sharing! You said failed VBAC? Do you still feel that way? Are you happy you tired??
Congratulations of the birth, i think you did an amazing job!

Thanks hun, i am certainly glad i did try, there was never any doubt i would to be honest schedualing a ceaser just didnt sit right for me.
I still feel that i somewhat failed as theres aways those "what if" questions that could have somehow changed the outcome. But i know deep down that i didnt have any control over him becoming distressed and i gave it the best shot i could

[Tegam]

Thanks hun, i am certainly glad i did try, there was never any doubt i would to be honest schedualing a ceaser just didnt sit right for me.
I still feel that i somewhat failed as theres aways those "what if" questions that could have somehow changed the outcome. But i know deep down that i didnt have any control over him becoming distressed and i gave it the best shot i could

I think the what if haunt us for life as birth is one of the only things we can never re do til we get it right because with every different child there is a new element we havent considered! Well thats what i have found.....

Congratulations again it was a well written story and i think it will help other women trying to VBAC!

Thanks for not thinking i was asking a too personal question

[~Minny~]

I think the what if haunt us for life as birth is one of the only things we can never re do til we get it right because with every different child there is a new element we havent considered! Well thats what i have found.....

Congratulations again it was a well written story and i think it will help other women trying to VBAC!

Thanks for not thinking i was asking a too personal question

Thanks hun xox