Thankyou all so very much.

Trish at time it felt like it was falling apart, but it held onto what it needed.

Christine, thanks mate. Erin wouldn't believe how Darc has changed, heck I think I'd be astounded at Erin!

Falguni, nope no pain at all that I can remember....wish u/s had picked it up....might not have moved a pallet of bricks at 35ish weeks lol.

Thanks Feeb, even though my brain knows that, every preg announcement/belly just makes my heart twinge for the what ifs....it will pass in time I'm confident.