Heather sweets, I know that feeling you describe so well.

When Olivia weaned, it took me about 2 weeks to get over the guilt and failure feelings. But then I really moved on once I saw how she chowed down the solids so well, and I realised that I was a lot more loving and patient towards her because, dare I say it, she wasn't being as "parasitic"? (I know that is awful, please note that that was just how I felt at the time).

With Charlie, I am now at the point where I am weaning him onto the bottle full time. A few weeks ago I felt torn apart with guilt over this, but now I have got my emotions around it totally.

So Heather, it sounds like you have had all your guilty feelings, & can now move on, and it is so good that your Mum is supportive. If you are excited about some newfound freedom, it sounds like you are making the best choice for you and Hendrix.......