I was having major issues with multiple side swaps and bedtime draaaaaging until I finally figured out I was pregnant and thought maybe my supply was low. Also DD just didn't seem tired at 7. So it was like she drank all the milk, then at 8 when she was actually tired there was nothing there and she'd get cranky.

Now we leave her be after her shower. Somehow she always chooses 8 to go to bed. Now it's a lot quicker, way less fiddling, and I get in and out and have more time for me/DH