Aww, BG, that sounds really hard. I can tell DD to fix her attachment by saying "ahhh" and getting on properly, which she does, but I'm sure you've probably tried. You'll make the right choice.

I spoke to an ABA counsellor today about my own situation and I'm feeling heaps better. And my DD1 looks to be fighting a bug or cold, and that was ll it took for me to remember how much I love breastfeeding, even though it isn't always fun.

HotI - Tandem feeding IS hard. I wish I'd known; I probably would have done things differently. But thanks