I got the Valco Baby Tranquility glider and love it!! Super comfy for me and little H loves the motion when he's trying to go to sleep on me. My porky DP uses it too with him and it takes his weight ok. When I was shopping I noticed a lot of the fake leather fabrics felt like they would tear really easily. This one isn't that kind of cover though.
I feed laying down a lot at night and of an afternoon but sometimes want to sit up or socialise if we have people over so it's out in the lounge room for that reason. Oh and the arm rests are at a good height for me to put a pillow and feed on that. Good luck! They're worth it in my opinion