so much variance, i have to wear a top and still shove washers down my top so I dont leak everywhere, if I lay down to feed I end up falling asleep as well, and then wake up when she starts feeding again, and by then i want to roll or some space. her night feeds only take 10-15mins anyway. you just atomatically do what works. I was talking to a mum at playgroup about when to move bub into her own room and I was saying the thought of getting up out of bed in the middle of the night is what turns me off, and she said, but you just do it, you know you need to, so you just get up and do it, and it soon becomes automatic and she does that in her sleep. (im not planning on moving her out, it came up because this mum is now pregnant with her 2nd and was trying to move her own dd to her own room to make room for the baby.)