We have tried me just going out and seeing how they get on - it was a couple of months ago now though, as it ended with DH calling me to come home and DS screaming until the second I walked in the door. He was getting better for a while, it was taking longer for DS to arc up but still he won't settle down and sleep for DH.

I moved DS out of our room when he was about 4 months - just worked better for us, we both slept better. It does mean getting up every so often, usually once or twice a night but yes there are nights where it's a lot more - mostly because of teeth.

Speaking of teeth....we're still having a few issues with scraping. Seems it crops up again every time another tooth breaks through. This might be contributing to my general don't want to do this anymore-ishness