Yep, have to agree, most are hideous and far too exxie. Also agree about the blatantly obvious BF tops too - same as the ones with thin straps but very obvious drop-cup clasp (just like a bra).
I'm in my third year of BF and I've never owned on piece of specifically BF clothing. At first I was a bit scared of dresses too, but if you find them with the right kind of neckline, it's no prob at all. Same as Shazz I find stretchy v-ncks far comfier and easier.