Your ob doesn't sound very supportive... you know, you'd be better off seeing a midwife

You can BF part time. I've watched my aunty and Mum both return to work with young babies (6 & 8 weeks), and both continue to BF beyond 2 years old! They both demand fed overnight and on weekends. Just so you know, it doesn't have to be all or nothing.

Hope you feel better soon. I think you're expecting a lot of yourself so soon after giving birth. Go slow and be gentle with yourself