I think that sometimes we are so unsure of what to do and if we get a midwife that isn't quite so good we can be terribly let down. Being told different things creates awful confusion I agree!

One would also expect for bubs chart to be checked and questions asked about input and output so as for it not happening by any one of those Drs or midwives throughout the day isn't good enough on their part. I had no idea that they would be so concerned about that stuff as a first time mum.

It's so overwhelming and you didn't do anything wrong OK!