I found the bfing singlets the best. I can't imagine anyone would have seen anything while wearing those and IMO the bfing covers are OTT. I needed to see my baby bfing when she was new so that I could make sure her attachment was right and when she got older we would look at each other while she was bfing, she would often like to touch my face while feeding. Can't see that working with a great big cover over her!