Thanks Sirenz, its good to know that it is possible. I've been thinking about what everyone has written here, and been pondering for quite a while now, and I think that I may just FF the next one. Maybe by the time I have a third one (because I am planning for three) then my memory would have faded enough to actually feel comfortable with the idea of BF again, instead of not wanting to even contemplate it.. iykwim.... :-)