Kylie, joining the ABA would be the best advice I can give you. And also find a LC in your area (pick a IBCLC certified one), and have both the ABA helpline and the LC's numbers handy when you go to hossy.

I was told that I had flat nipples when DS1 was born. It turns out he also had a tongue-tie which was a bigger problem, and after that was snipped we managed to attach without nipple shields. When DS2 was born I was told I had great nipples for bfing - go figure!! So you well might be right this time around. But if not, you will know where to get advice and support, so I am sure you will find it easier than last time.

Best of luck and well done for being so successful with DD1 after facing such hurdles.