Hi Amy! Sounds like you could use a bit of help. Do you have access to a lactation consultant at the hospital you birthed at? Or would you be open to calling one in private practice to come and see you?

It sounds like you're having some problems with attachment if your nipples are cracked and sore - definitely not normal and something that needs addressing. A good LC can watch you feed and help you trouble shoot and might be your best bet.

Can you feed lying down in bed to get some more rest? That can work well for some mums. Let us know if you want some pointers on how to do that.

Like Barb says, it is normal for babies to feed very frequently and to want to suck at the breast a lot. Actually, at this point, it's a good thing for him that he's waking up and demanding more milk - it's exactly what he needs - and it's generally quite fine to just keep on feeding through the unsettled periods. It's very hard on you, however, particularly if you're in pain. So your hubby is there helping out now? That's great, I'm sure that must be a big help for you.

Liquidy poo sounds quite normal for a newborn. An LC would be able to give you better advice (being able to actually see the poo).

From time to time, particularly in the next 12 months, there will be periods when he needs you. Just you. And he'll ask for the breast if you're breastfeeding because that's what he's programmed to do. These times pass, though. You may also find that a sling or carrier is helpful and that's something daddy can do, too.

Hang in there