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thread: Just got AF! How can this be?

  1. #1
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    Apr 2007
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    Just got AF! How can this be?

    I thought if I exclusively BF I wouldn't get AF back for some time. Its been 16 weeks since DD's birth and she has just arrived. I'd been feeling it the last few days but was hoping I was wrong. How can this be? GRrrrrrrrrr

  2. #2
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    May 2007
    Brisbane
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    Oh isn't that just a total pain in the ass!!!!!!!!!!!!
    We're just the lucky ones. I got AF back at 8 weeks, and regluarly for a few cycles afterwards, and I was exclusively breastfeeding day and night!!!!!!!!!!!! Totally ripped off! My body decides to be normal and regular right when I didn't want it to be!!!!

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    Aug 2007
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    Oh I hear you! 6 weeks post natal here! and exclusively feeding!

  4. #4
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    Jan 2009
    pakenham, victoria
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    oh hun thats poo!!! FWIW i got mine back at 12 weeks, fully breastfed day night,was a rude shock

  5. #5
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    Dec 2006
    Melbourne
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    I got mine by six weeks each time even though I was still bf it sucks doesn't it.

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    Mar 2004
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    Bummer. I got mine back pretty fast after DS1 was born.

  7. #7
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    Sep 2007
    Melbourne
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    Good to see i'm not the only one that got them back early! (Well not good but you know what i mean ) I've exclusively BF both girls and with DD1 i didn't get them back til she was over 6 months old, but with DD2 she was 7 weeks old! I was very unimpressed lol

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    Sep 2008
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    Yup, 7 weeks here too. Poor DH heard me swearing in the bathroom and thought something was terribly wrong!

  9. #9
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    Sep 2008
    Melbourne
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    Happened to me too I felt so ripped off getting AF 4 months after DD was born and I was feeding her 6 times a day. But, in a strange twist, she didnt come to visit again til the 10 month mark?!?

  10. #10
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    Apr 2007
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    Poo poo poo! I think we were all ripped off LOL, I thought I wouldn't need birth control for some time - so much for the advice I was given that I'd be safe while BF...can't believe it's me saying this I haven't been on BC for over 6 years.

    Do the change in hormones affect your milk because DD hasn't been that interested in feeding the last few days & has been quite grisley?

  11. #11
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    Dec 2005
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    Yep, sucks doesn't it! Ambah was 16 weeks old when AF arrived as well
    With the arrival of AF, your milk will most likely be upsetting dd. Just persist, she'll feed when she's ready again.

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    Jul 2009
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    I got AF third month after DD was born fully breast fed as well, i was so upset

  13. #13
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    Jul 2006
    In The Land Of Wonderful...
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    I got mine back the week before Carmelo was 4 months as well
    He hadn't even dropped a night feed either... crapola!

    With Luke, I didn't get it back at all until I had completely weaned... and he was down to 2 feeds a day for a while before he finished. AF didn't come back until about a month after I had completely stopped... which I guess is comforting as next time may be different?!

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    2013 BellyBelly RAK Recipient.

    May 2007
    Brisbane
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    It'll probably cause a bit of fussing, getting my period still caused fussing up until Jazz weaned a few weeks ago, but it's nothing major, only lasts a few days at most, and she'll get used to it

  15. #15
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    Oct 2008
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    All I can say Dusty is bums bums bums to that. Was discussing the same think to a close friend today would you believe, she's had a similar experience.

  16. #16
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    May 2008
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    *hands up* yep AF arrived here after about 4 mnths too. It would come semi-regularly every 4-6 weeks. DS would also be fussy feeding when AF arrived, some months were worse then others but we kept going and he got over it pretty quickly

  17. #17
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    May 2008
    Gtown
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    I'm at 8 months and still no AF. I am starting to think about it and maybe there is something wrong with me....but after reading thru posts I think it just comes back wenever....Too bad if we wanted to try again tho..what do you do then?

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    My nephew dropped a night feed and my sister got her's back after 4 months. DD was sucky with keeping my supply up so 3 months here

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