I agree with working out the feeding thing with DH. It is good to have a break and good on him for taking initiative, but it could be detrimental in the long run in terms of your supply settling to what your DD needs. So maybe having set times every night for comp feeds if that's what you want to do.

I also agree with those who have said to just accept the level of sleep you end up getting. Babies don't come out programmed to our chosen lifestyle (as much as that would rock), it takes months and even years for babies to learn everything we know as adults about sleeping, settling etc. Hang in there.