I don't know why people can't just feed their own kids and get a hobby to pass the remainder of their apparently ample spare time.
Because for some people 'feeding their kids' brings physical, emotional and mental pain. Breastfeeding is one of the toughest things I have ever done in my life. The early pain, the constancy of it, the effect on my hormones, sex life, working life, you name it, it has been central to my experience of parenting.

I persevered because I wanted to and I believe in it. There are many women who are not supported, or educated or physically well enough to continue, and many of these women feel guilty, uneasy, or sad about their experience. I don't want to negate anyone's experiences. Its not just feeding for many, it is a lifestyle choice, a health choice, a MASSIVE choice whether you FF or BF.

I would have thought that the emotion throughout this thread would demonstrate that its not just "feeding" children that is involved. Its our experience as parents we are discussing.

The lack of information and support about breastfeeding, and conversely all the 'breast is best' stuff works against women and against breastfeeding...yes it is normal, but it is HARD. Even if you succeed it continues to be a challenge...just like all parenting experiences.